Why am I passionate about this?

My version of a gutsy life journey was to find work abroad, buy a one-way ticket, and not look back - one place after the next. Long ago, girls didn’t do this, but I did. A struggle and worth it. Great memoirs have a geographical and an inner journey. They make me laugh and cry, both. This is what I love to read, and it’s my aim as a writer. My books are love letters to these adventures, plus some joking around in order not to scream or weep at some of what’s out there. I’ve been a teacher, a film editor, a comedian, a librarian, and now a writer.


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Hope, Laughter, Survival on the Refugee Trail

By Eileen Kay ,

Book cover of Hope, Laughter, Survival on the Refugee Trail

What is my book about?

Dramatic true story with a wicked sense of humor. Retired teacher in Budapest befriends medical students fleeing war in Ukraine,…

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The books I picked & why

Book cover of The Choice: Embrace the Possible

Eileen Kay Why I love this book

I want to hug this charming, wise lady! 

She went through a hard time by believing she had choices. I admire her for not being defeated. 

Now a celebrated psychologist, trauma specialist, inspirational speaker, and all-around loveably cute grandma, her story was gripping and moving, especially her brave trip to return to the Auschwitz concentration camp, to face the trauma of her time there during World War 2.

I was awestruck and impressed by how she confirmed her choice and life’s mission to be happy and helpful, no matter what. I was inspired, to say the least. It convinced me that if she can do that, I can tackle a few challenges too.

She is my new sweet Nana.

By Edith Eva Eger ,

Why should I read it?

9 authors picked The Choice as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

THE AWARD-WINNING SUNDAY TIMES AND NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

Even in hell, hope can flower

'I'll be forever changed by her story' - Oprah Winfrey

'Extraordinary ... will stick with you long after you read it' - Bill Gates

'One of those rare and eternal stories you don't want to end' - Desmond Tutu

'A masterpiece of holocaust literature. Her memoir, like her life, is extraordinary, harrowing and inspiring in equal measure' - The Times Literary Supplement

'I can't imagine a more important message for modern times. Eger's book is a triumph' - The New York Times

In 1944, sixteen-year-old…


Book cover of Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail

Eileen Kay Why I love this book

I was exhilarated by this astonishing story, and I applaud this young woman. 

At age 26, she faced an acrimonious divorce, the death of her mother, and a drug overdose, but did this crush her, like it would have done to the rest of us? No! It scarcely slowed her down!

She rashly went on an ill-advised hiking trek of over a thousand miles, for which she was seriously unprepared, and just about everything went wrong that could go wrong. But, she came out the other end a whole new person. 

It had some cringing and suspenseful moments – and I will not spoil the amazing Boot Scene. I was very happy to have gone on this trip with her – from my armchair! 

By Cheryl Strayed ,

Why should I read it?

37 authors picked Wild as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

#1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • A powerful, blazingly honest memoir: the story of an eleven-hundred-mile solo hike that broke down a young woman reeling from catastrophe—and built her back up again.

At twenty-two, Cheryl Strayed thought she had lost everything. In the wake of her mother’s death, her family scattered and her own marriage was soon destroyed. Four years later, with nothing more to lose, she made the most impulsive decision of her life. With no experience or training, driven only by blind will, she would hike more than a thousand miles of the Pacific Crest Trail from the…


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Gifts from a Challenging Childhood by Jan Bergstrom,

Learn to understand and work with your childhood wounds. Do you feel like old wounds or trauma from your childhood keep showing up today? Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed with what to do about it and where to start? If so, this book will help you travel down a path…

Book cover of A Journey Round My Skull

Eileen Kay Why I love this book

I’d like to thank this humorist for making brain surgery fascinating and bizarrely funny.

I couldn’t put it down. I was fascinated with how incredibly dark and awful it was, and yet he made me laugh. 

Normally, I could never read intense, graphic, bloody descriptions of early, risky, experimental brain surgery in the 1930s, when it was a frighteningly new technology. However, the author under the knife was one of the most sarcastic humorists of his time, so the resulting memoir is riveting, thrilling, shocking, horrifying, compelling, and weirdly humorous all the way along. I discovered there are no nerves inside the brain, and you have to be awake during brain surgery.

This writer recorded every scrape, every sound, everything. It is totally horrific, completely amazing, and highly recommended. 

Book cover of Journey to a Revolution

Eileen Kay Why I love this book

He tells half of this history as an expert, the other half as an idiot.  

He and other naïve British students in 1956 were told by an uncle, “You need a war. We had Spain. You can have Budapest.” They drove to Hungary when everyone else was leaving that nightmare. They did not know what they were getting into, but soon found out. 

He’s witty and honest about their foolishness. But once there, he started writing about the street warfare he witnessed. It was the start of his career as a journalist and author. 

Korda is a proper historian - objective, clear, intellectual and cool. He’s also a witty entertainer, with a great line in classically British ironic understatement. He makes history dramatic and huge, yet also engagingly personal.

By Michael Korda ,

Why should I read it?

1 author picked Journey to a Revolution as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

"Journey to a Revolution" is at once a history and a compelling memoir, the story of four twenty-four year old Oxford undergraduates who took off for Budapest in a beat-up old Volkswagon convertible in October 1956, to bring badly needed medicine to the Budapest hospitals and to participate, at street level, in one of the great, heroic battes of post-war history. Korda paints a vivid and richly detailed picture of the events and the people, explores such major questions as the extent to which the British and the American intelligence services were involved in the uprising and made the Hungarians…


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Book cover of Gifts from a Challenging Childhood: Healing the Legacy of Childhood Trauma

Gifts from a Challenging Childhood by Jan Bergstrom,

Learn to understand and work with your childhood wounds. Do you feel like old wounds or trauma from your childhood keep showing up today? Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed with what to do about it and where to start? If so, this book will help you travel down a path…

Book cover of I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings

Eileen Kay Why I love this book

I was deeply affected by this, like she was confiding in me.

Whether her memories were tragic, ugly, hilarious, witty, classy, silly, poignant, or just plain practical, it was like we were sharing a glass of wine and she was telling me everything. 

I loved that she sent me every feeling of the rainbow, and each was felt deeply. I love when a story makes me laugh and cry. It was inspiring and beautiful to spend some time with this poet, reminiscing about her early years, before she was the Maya we know now.

Also, I feel schooled in what it was like to be black in America at that time, and what a gutsy journey she was on. It was an important eye-opener, as well as a warm invitation.

By Maya Angelou ,

Why should I read it?

13 authors picked I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings as one of their favorite books, and they share why you should read it.

What is this book about?

Maya Angelou's seven volumes of autobiography are a testament to the talents and resilience of this extraordinary writer. Loving the world, she also knows its cruelty. As a Black woman she has known discrimination and extreme poverty, but also hope, joy,achievement and celebration. In this first volume of her six books of autobiography, Maya Angelou beautifully evokes her childhood with her grandmother in the American south of the 1930s. She learns the power of the white folks at the other end of town and suffers the terrible trauma of rape by her mother's lover.


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Hope, Laughter, Survival on the Refugee Trail

By Eileen Kay ,

Book cover of Hope, Laughter, Survival on the Refugee Trail

What is my book about?

Dramatic true story with a wicked sense of humor. Retired teacher in Budapest befriends medical students fleeing war in Ukraine, producing friendship, spicy soup, and sharp joking. While that city of a million dealt with three million refugees, many citizens opened their doors. Many kept their spirits up with help from comedians and everyday joking, however dark – like the grandma who downed a drone with a jar of tomatoes. The Ukrainian soldiers who were threatened by a Russian warship and swore obscenities in reply. And of course, everyday people trying to cheer each other up.

You can meet great people in a bad situation. A crisis can bring out the best in some people. This book’s full of “ordinary” people doing extraordinary things. 

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